Celebrate the benefits. No, not the dental and vision plans, silly – the benefits you've been missing the last few months:
Reacquaint yourself with adult conversation before you head back to work. After months alone with a newborn, day after day, it's natural to forget how to interact with people on a daily basis. Practice conversing with adults other than your spouse a few weeks prior to your return to work date. Keep in mind not everyone can read your mind or understand that irrational screaming simply means you’re craving a hug.
Go shopping. Chances are you won't be fitting perfectly into your pre-pregnancy wardrobe by the time you head back to work, leaving you with two choices:
Getting new clothes that actually fit will do wonders for your self-esteem. Just be sure to check your shoulders before you leave the house as spit up can be more prominent on a black business suit than a ratty old t-shirt.
Plan ahead. After working a full day and driving to daycare to pick up your baby, the last thing you’re going to feel like doing is cooking dinner. My advice is to embrace the wonder of the crockpot by letting the machine fill your home with the scent of a freshly cooked meal while you’re miles away at work. Another time saving tip is to lay out all of your clothes for the week on Sunday to avoid that moment of tearing apart your closet when you should already be in the car. Also, always charge your cell phone overnight.
Give yourself a break. Whether you’re missing your baby, not missing your baby, or missing one of your baby's milestones, allow yourself to have an outburst every now and then. Just remember to pick yourself up and get back to work! Feeling guilty is a useless emotion that isn’t going to help you focus on your job or gets you home sooner to cuddle that baby of yours.
I wish you the best of luck, fellow moms. You can do it.
Jill Smokler is the New York Times bestselling author of Confessions of A Scary Mommy (April 2012) and Motherhood Comes Naturally (And Other Vicious Lies) (April 2013) as well as the owner all things Scary Mommy.
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